The father’s role has changed considerably. It is increasingly important in the upbringing and care of her child. Here are 9 tips to be a better dad
1. Give your child time
Although the work takes too much time and energy. But you only have one chance to spend time with your child. Find activities at home or at play. Your child will know if you like it by the efforts you make to include it in your life.
2. Choose the positive discipline
Punishment is not effective. They only lead to negative behaviors such as fear, rebellion or hatred. Instead the child up to its responsibilities by giving him a choice. A logical and appropriate to the situation. Example: If you do not ranges of toys, they will go off in a closet with double-turn for a moment. Positive discipline allows the child to understand what is expected of them, evaluate the choice and take responsibility. Punishment allows the child to know why he hates you.
3. Your child can do
The mistake of many fathers to believe that the child is incapable. Your child feels. Resulting in a complex, a lack of confidence, a blockage and you are ultimately the cause of what you do not want it to be. Encouragement, congratulations and advice motivate your child to do even better.
4. Show your love
Do not be ashamed to take your child in his arms, to kiss him and say I love you. It is very good for both the boy and girl for a little romp with her dad. Children need to feel on the soft side of their father. This is to show and not hide.
5. Listen to your child
Forget what you’re doing a few seconds and look in their eyes when the child talks to you. Otherwise it will take more and more a stranger to her world because you do not interest him. If you want your child listening vote must also make the effort to do the same.
6. Be aware of the desires of the child
What do you really know your child? Do you know his desires and dreams? What he likes to do in his life? And what he does not do? If there are things that you do not know yet, you can always ask. The child will be happy to share a piece of his life with you.
7. Consider the relationship with your father
A disappointing relationship with your father affects the relationship with your child. Is there something you want to tell your father and you’ve never dared to say? It’s time. Forgive your father you will certainly be a better father to your child.
8. Take care of yourself
It’s hard to pretend to be a good father if you’re not good with yourself. The consequence is the nervousness, impatience, and detachment. In short everything that makes a bad father. Find a way to relax, reduce stress by doing exercises, sports, ballads. Use your family and friends to help. They will appreciate.
9. Control your anger
Humans have great difficulty in controlling the emotions that a family creates mandatory. The result is often anger, which raises echoes of anger on your loved ones. Try to understand how to channel his emotions. Where to show your anger away from your wife and your child? You know only your anger can traumatize your child for a moment.